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Course Outline for Fathering 201-

A Weekend Intensive Workshop for Separated Fathers  (16 hours)

 

Meet and greet

What’s happening now-An open round table discussion regarding where we are right  now in   the fathering process

Role models- examining how our fathers fathered

The role of the father in today’s world.  The Child in a box.


Exploring confidence.   Nurturing onfidence in the child  as well as self-conficence   in being an adequate or better father.    This group will explore the 4 C's of confidence-  Cognition, Communication, Collaboration and Choreography.

The parenting partnership in today’s world.   Wat are the options ?  What are the  themes and variations.  What are my legal "rights" and obligations".  What  are my moral  rights and obligations.

It is all about "choice"Making constructive choices versus destructive choices .

The nature of Interpersonal Negotiations.


What to do if my partner is making destructive choices.

Common parent traps and how to avoid them

In-laws and Outlaws –the role of extended family, the importance of a parent   support system and the necessity and means of establishing boundaries

Power - am I a victim ? am I an abuser -  how do I use my power ?

The bottom line  - What is best for the child ?  What is the impact

What happened ?  What do we do to ensure this dynamic does NOT repeat itself. 

 Conclusion -  look around you  - you know have a network of fathers who are  similar and different.  Use this network that has been constructed this weekend.